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Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2022 11:52 pm
by Itseasytosee2me

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:00 am
by bastardblaster
clown deserved it

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:03 am
by Vekter
bastardblaster wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:00 am clown deserved it
He did, but critting him was a bit over the line for a single joke and if you're gonna warn someone to quit something, you actually have to give them enough time to stop doing it first.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:16 am
by Shadowflame909
clowns!

There's a reason there is a title screen of them floating out of an airlock.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:20 am
by Archie700
mommy

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:31 am
by TheSmallBlue
I do think a 7 day ban is a bit too much for this? I wouldn't call this self antagging, they had a valid reason to start a conflict, even if they immediately escalated to violence. If they didn't have any other notes for improper escalation a ban seems way too extreme
The clown was also a dick it doesn't take more than half a second to shift click on someone and see their pronouns, they might've been purposefully misgendering them which breaks Rule 11 but i have no idea

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:43 am
by Super Aggro Crag
vekter i disagree with this ban

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:35 am
by Agux909
This is a certified Vekter moment.

Now really, putting aside the "always kill the clown" meme, I think it's kind of stupid and very failrp to jump into critting the clown basically just for existing. Also the clown just misgendered a character, and did so to make a play on the title "CMO".

Was the banned person playing a character that after one vague misgender warning jumps straight to crit/kill another player? That's pretty shitty, and it's not very different to justifying a kill with "my character is insane" after the most minor inconvenience. Pretty self-antag attitude.

I'd say 1 day... but whoooops! Note history my beloved. Oh how I wish these were fucking public already so we could have a better picture of how much of a repeated offender a player is/isn't. Would be great, right?

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:37 am
by Misdoubtful
Chief Mommy Officer

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:41 am
by Agux909
Misdoubtful wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:37 am Chief Mommy Officer
*gigglesnorts

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:02 am
by CoffeeDragon16
today on tg: player gets banned for week for not tolerating sexual harassment

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:02 am
by iwishforducks
vekter you have really been off your game recently

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:06 am
by Mice World
Agux909 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:35 am I'd say 1 day... but whoooops! Note history my beloved. Oh how I wish these were fucking public already so we could have a better picture of how much of a repeated offender a player is/isn't. Would be great, right?
I think notes shouldn't be public honestly, it just seems like it would be another source of drama. If we trust our admins enough to ban people, then we should be able to trust them enough to ban people based on their history. If other admins disagree then they can voice their concerns to the headmins who will (hopefully) overturn or reduce the ban.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:10 am
by Agux909
Yeah, it was more of a nudge post so a certain based person came in and made these public.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:18 am
by sinfulbliss
CoffeeDragon16 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:02 am today on tg: player gets banned for week for not tolerating sexual harassment
your bones have gotta be made of jello to actually consider this sexual harassment

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:32 am
by CMDR_Gungnir
TheSmallBlue wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:31 am The clown was also a dick it doesn't take more than half a second to shift click on someone and see their pronouns, they might've been purposefully misgendering them which breaks Rule 11 but i have no idea
You telling me I can get people banned every time they call my statics a guy?

Assuming malice is never a good idea.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:11 am
by CoffeeDragon16
sinfulbliss wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:18 am your bones have gotta be made of jello to actually consider this sexual harassment
youre just incredibly desensitized to it after seeing it daily here
every time i take a break and come back im shocked at how creepy people are

i will never forget cyan telling me his first round he got what amounts to getting gangbang erped and he just thought it was normal for the server

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:42 am
by sinfulbliss
CoffeeDragon16 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:11 am
sinfulbliss wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:18 am your bones have gotta be made of jello to actually consider this sexual harassment
youre just incredibly desensitized to it after seeing it daily here
every time i take a break and come back im shocked at how creepy people are

i will never forget cyan telling me his first round he got what amounts to getting gangbang erped and he just thought it was normal for the server
my brother in christ the clown calling the CMO the Chief Mommy Officer is not sexual harassment if you think it is you are way too sensitive

it’s licherally the clown

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:49 am
by iwishforducks
sinfulbliss wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:42 am
CoffeeDragon16 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:11 am
sinfulbliss wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:18 am your bones have gotta be made of jello to actually consider this sexual harassment
youre just incredibly desensitized to it after seeing it daily here
every time i take a break and come back im shocked at how creepy people are

i will never forget cyan telling me his first round he got what amounts to getting gangbang erped and he just thought it was normal for the server
my brother in christ the clown calling the CMO the Chief Mommy Officer is not sexual harassment if you think it is you are way too sensitive

it’s licherally the clown
it's sexual harassment

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:27 am
by Farquaar
I really don't know what to think. I get more confused with every reply to this peanut I read.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:29 am
by Wolfmoy
Clowns being lynched for saying dumb shit should be the standard, not the exception

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:34 am
by toemas
its not sexual harassment, get real
doesnt mean it isnt wierd and annoying

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:35 am
by toemas
For it to be considered sexual harassment it has to be actual harassment in the first place. Calling someone names in a video game is not harassment

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:10 am
by Ziiro
Wolfmoy wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:29 am Clowns being lynched for saying dumb shit should be the standard, not the exception
Okay but the issue here is the severity for the first time:

If this was something the clown kept doing it would be fine punishment

If the cmo didn't go so hard for their first beating of would be fine

If the player didn't have a history of self antag the first two points could probably be a warning

All these factors together line up to be "over the line"

At the bare minimum you have to agree to have the clown live long enough to run a joke out at least a little

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:16 am
by sinfulbliss
Farquaar wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:27 am I really don't know what to think. I get more confused with every reply to this peanut I read.
^ cattle who cannot express his true opinion on a contentious topic

you sicken me

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:50 am
by iwishforducks
toemas wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:35 am For it to be considered sexual harassment it has to be actual harassment in the first place. Calling someone names in a video game is not harassment
not all sexual harassment is equal

it's still sexual harassment; no one is going "This Guy Is A Sex Offender"

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:51 am
by toemas
iwishforducks wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:50 am it's still sexual harassment
no

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 7:05 am
by Itseasytosee2me
iwishforducks wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 5:50 am not all sexual harassment is equal

it's still sexual harassment; no one is going "This Guy Is A Sex Offender"
My main man, are you saying it’s sexual harassment because they are being misgendered, or because you think “mommy” is an vulgar sexual term

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 7:33 am
by Imitates-The-Lizards
Why is everyone in here glossing over Vekter's actual argument? He said the CMO didn't actually give the clown sufficient time to not insult him the second time.

This is more of a failrp and over escalation/over aggression ban than anything to do with the original insults.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:28 am
by kieth4
Freaky comment. I don't think it amounts to sexual harassment but I 100% feel that it's a freakazoid commentsto make and definitely something I personally would beat people up for. Always beat up freaky players.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:39 am
by kieth4
Also if we're talking about escalation doesn't the conflict end when one party hits crit. The clown continued despite this (unless I'm misunderstanding.) when the conflict was over and the admin still defends him. (Might be wrong) And in terms of "verbal warnings" let's say the clown didn't see the text, isn't it fucking obvious when someone crits you over something that they want you to stop?

Lots of my friends don't want to play this game anymore because of freaky weirdos man. This is sad to watch.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 9:58 am
by Kendrickorium
lmao im not even going to read the appeal

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:52 pm
by Agux909
Yeah after reading the logs for both individuals it's such a clear cut case. Some details may be missing and I'm not going to intercalate the logs with the events, but for anyone being curious:
https://tgstation13.download/parsed-log ... 2/game.txt

Clown (called "Gonna Stab You In The Leg") was just clowning around and eventually gets to medbay, where he starts some sort of "breakdance competition", which he apparently "wins" for (by his words) 10000 credits as "per breakdancing law", he then gives medbay "his blessing" which has something to do with his canned laughter.

Nobody was being mean to the clown as of yet here, and it's plainly obvious he didn't come to medbay with the intention of "harrassing" anyone. He was just doing clown gimmicks.

CMO (Nyle Black) decides to start punching/kicking the clown when he encounters them and says "Chief Mommy Officer", and before the clown even realizes what the CMO is talking about, he goes into crit. Clown even asks them to stop and why they're doing it, but the CMO doesn't really say anything else after his vague "misgender me 1 more time". Clown at this point never even harmed the CMO and had boxing gloves on, which he was using to box with another doctor.

After getting healed by staff, the clown, understandably, starts malding against the CMO, and when he has the opportunity, stabs them with a drill.They fight again, clown calls security and yells in comms that CMO is killing him, which then happens.

Clown then gets revived, CMO starts yelling that he is a tot and tries to kill him again, which at least 2 medstaff oppose at this point (from here onwards the clown changes the way to adress the CMO, using he/they).

Clown tries to call security, also calls CMO out as a tot, and runs around asking them to stop, to no avail. CMO not only kills the clown again, but also kills those 2 coworkers for defending the clown and opposing their boss (which is very telling of their regard for the CMO as a head of staff), then CMO stuffs the clown's body into their locker and threatens to cremate him. Clown is AGAIN revived later, and this time he leaves medbay as fast as he can, so as to not start shit again.

We're missing the note history but I'm 99% sure Vekter made the right call here.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:32 pm
by Super Aggro Crag
Yeah but i just love killing agux

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:35 pm
by Agux909
I understand. Just be less like this guy, please.
Also fucking hell crag, posting like 1 second before I edit it.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:00 pm
by Super Aggro Crag
I didnt do it on purpose

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:37 pm
by Omega_DarkPotato
Although restarting conflict was wrong on the clown's part the initial fight was an Escalation Failure moment on behalf of the CMO

calling someone mommy should get you slapped but not into crit though dont be fuckin weird online

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:47 pm
by Armhulen
The clown take:
If the person who said it was any other job, this would be a valid ban
But because it's the clown, who is actively clowning, it's based. If the clown ahelps afterwards, it's basically banbait but I don't think I'd apply a banbaiting ban. You just gotta learn that playing clown puts you in a position where you're able to say "Chief Mommy Officer" and then get beaten into the floor tiles for it, WHICH IS GREAT! All clowns should be cracking champagne irl if they're getting critted over a single line

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:58 pm
by kieth4
Omega_DarkPotato wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 3:37 pm Although restarting conflict was wrong on the clown's part the initial fight was an Escalation Failure moment on behalf of the CMO

calling someone mommy should get you slapped but not into crit though dont be fuckin weird online
I think be critted for freaky comments is pretty normal, in my eyes at least.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:43 pm
by Tearling
toemas wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 4:34 am its not sexual harassment, get real
doesnt mean it isnt wierd and annoying
sinfulbliss wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:18 am
CoffeeDragon16 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:02 am today on tg: player gets banned for week for not tolerating sexual harassment
your bones have gotta be made of jello to actually consider this sexual harassment
A rare case where I agree with both Sinful and Toemas at the same time.
But yeah Gungnir makes a good point.
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:32 am Assuming malice is never a good idea.
"Don't attribute to malice what you can easier attribute to stupidity"... is a quote or something.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:37 pm
by Vekter
Agux909 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 1:35 am I'd say 1 day... but whoooops! Note history my beloved. Oh how I wish these were fucking public already so we could have a better picture of how much of a repeated offender a player is/isn't. Would be great, right?
He's been banned or noted six times since October 1st for self-antagging.

This is absolutely one of those situations where it's like "Normally I'd just note you for this but you keep fucking doing it so obviously notes aren't getting the message across".

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:39 pm
by CMDR_Gungnir
Tearling wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:43 pm
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:32 am Assuming malice is never a good idea.
"Don't attribute to malice what you can easier attribute to stupidity"... is a quote or something.
Bingo.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 10:03 pm
by toemas
Retarded digg clown owned

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 10:36 pm
by Vekter
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:39 pm
Tearling wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:43 pm
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:32 am Assuming malice is never a good idea.
"Don't attribute to malice what you can easier attribute to stupidity"... is a quote or something.
Bingo.
It's called Hanlon's Razor

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2022 11:08 pm
by CMDR_Gungnir
Vekter wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 10:36 pm
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:39 pm
Tearling wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:43 pm
CMDR_Gungnir wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 2:32 am Assuming malice is never a good idea.
"Don't attribute to malice what you can easier attribute to stupidity"... is a quote or something.
Bingo.
It's called Hanlon's Razor
I did not, in fact, know the name for it, thank you!

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2022 7:47 am
by Pandarsenic
Vekter wrote: He's been banned or noted six times since October 1st for self-antagging.

This is absolutely one of those situations where it's like "Normally I'd just note you for this but you keep fucking doing it so obviously notes aren't getting the message across".
Did the clown deserve it? Yeah, probably.

But!

You do, in fact, have to actually wait to see if they follow a "don't do that" warning before you turn them into banana smoothie pulp. And if you have six notes for self-antag in the past 80 days, meaning an average of one note every 2 weeks, it looks an awful lot like you maybe don't have that much of a problem with the clown as much as you were looking for any excuse to get in a fight.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2022 7:56 am
by iwishforducks
the clown was literally in medical get over it, soft critting really isnt that bad

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:59 am
by Agux909
iwishforducks wrote: Tue Dec 20, 2022 7:56 am the clown was literally in medical get over it, soft critting really isnt that bad
The point just took off from Point Airport.
It was at least 8 kilometers over your head.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Wed Dec 21, 2022 12:16 am
by sinfulbliss
Overall… Overall. Both parties were at fault. The clown was at fault for ahelping this in the first place, clowns should be EXPECTING to get crit over risky jokes and wear it as a medal. The CMO was at fault for going straight to softcrit I suppose, buuuut…

The CMO probably shouldn’t have gotten a ban for softcritting someone calling them chief mommy officer. I think that makes you close to valid. Sure they could’ve handled it better but probably no admin action was needed.

Re: Chief Mommy Officer (Peanut)

Posted: Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:12 am
by Tearling
sinfulbliss wrote: Wed Dec 21, 2022 12:16 am Overall… Overall. Both parties were at fault. The clown was at fault for ahelping this in the first place, clowns should be EXPECTING to get crit over risky jokes and wear it as a medal. The CMO was at fault for going straight to softcrit I suppose, buuuut…

The CMO probably shouldn’t have gotten a ban for softcritting someone calling them chief mommy officer. I think that makes you close to valid. Sure they could’ve handled it better but probably no admin action was needed.
See
Agux909 wrote: Mon Dec 19, 2022 12:52 pm Best Summary