Hey there, thanks for appealing. Apologies for this being so long, there's a few logs I have collated.
Your own actions give yourself away, unfortunately. You will be able to find a copy of these logs via
https://tgstation13.org/parsed-logs/syb ... 198359.zip, while the collated logs collected before were from in game (and are thus likely a mix between game.log and attack.log), you should be able to find appropriate copies within these logs. I trimmed out a lot of the excess repeat logs (such as escalating a grab, duplicate kiss logging, etc.)
It is not that you simply kissed people, it is that you forced yourself onto them to repeatedly kiss them. This happened not once, not twice, but three times.
To address your complaints that you were not using the words in a bigoted manner, but rather as a term not specifically oriented to same-sex attraction, I applied this Rule 11 Precedent:
Context is important, but somebody being an out and proud bigot, nazi, or white supremacist also counts as context. Somebody who makes it known they are bigoted towards PoCs playing a PoC character that starts checking stereotype boxes isn't going to fool us.
I don't know if you are traditionally checking "stereotype" boxes, but it reeks of it given the following logs:
[2023-01-16 22:44:33.596] SAY: Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) "So what's the crime?" (Brig (70,151,3))
[2023-01-16 22:44:36.084] SAY: Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) "Loving another man?" (Brig (70,154,3))
[2023-01-16 22:44:38.895] SAY: Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) "Are you homophobic?" (Brig (70,154,3))
This precludes all of your later actions and casts a deep suspicion for how you do your later interactions (or at least attemping to "love" people without any consent what-so-ever).
Here is the first incident to a prisoner moth:
[2023-01-16 22:51:11] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Wing (76,152,2)) (Event #68) "Alright Mothie"
[2023-01-16 22:51:37] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Wing (94,151,2)) (Event #69) "HERE COMES MY KISSES, FAGGOT!!"
[2023-01-16 22:51:41] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Garden (99,152,2)) (Event #127) kicks Courier2223/(Acroni) with onto their side (paralyzing) (NEWHP: 100)
-Jaukkuri shoves the victim for this span of time-
[2023-01-16 22:52:14] Courier2223/(Acroni) (Prison Gym (76,169,2)) (Event #1) "Why?"
[2023-01-16 22:52:17] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (78,164,2)) (Event #70) "It's gonna happen"
[2023-01-16 22:52:19] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (78,164,2)) (Event #71) "One way or another"
[2023-01-16 22:52:21] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (78,164,2)) (Event #72) "My love..."
[2023-01-16 22:52:49] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (80,161,2)) (Event #163) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
[2023-01-16 22:52:52] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (80,161,2)) (Event #165) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
[2023-01-16 22:52:55] Courier2223/(Acroni) (Prison Gym (79,161,2)) (Event #2) "Fucking."
[2023-01-16 22:53:01] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (80,161,2)) (Event #73) "...I love you!"
[2023-01-16 22:53:03] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (80,161,2)) (Event #169) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
[2023-01-16 22:53:14] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (78,161,2)) (Event #172) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
[2023-01-16 22:53:18] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Gym (78,161,2)) (Event #175) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
[2023-01-16 22:53:23] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Prison Wing (79,157,2)) (Event #177) attacked Courier2223/(Acroni) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 1) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 86.7)
Here is the second interaction with the head of personnel. No words until the end, where they reveal that they are lagging:
[2023-01-16 22:54:12] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Port Tram Dock (78,119,3)) (Event #182) kicks Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with onto their side (paralyzing) (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:15] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Port Tram Dock (78,119,3)) (Event #186) shoved Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with knocking them down (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:17] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Port Tram Dock (93,119,3)) (Event #187) attacked Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 0) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:19] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Central Tram Dock (117,119,3)) (Event #190) kicks Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with onto their side (paralyzing) (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:21] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Central Tram Dock (125,119,3)) (Event #193) attacked Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 0) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:24] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Central Tram Dock (125,119,3)) (Event #196) shoved Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with knocking them down (NEWHP: 96.6)
[2023-01-16 22:54:24.606] SAY: Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) "I am the Lag..." (Central Tram Dock (125,118,3))
[2023-01-16 22:54:26] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Central Tram Dock (125,119,3)) (Event #198) attacked Vithelic/(Cedric Mundy) with kiss (COMBAT MODE: 0) (DAMTYPE: BRUTE) (NEWHP: 96.6)
Here is the third interaction with the psychologist, namely where the "serious love" aspect of your ban comes from:
[2023-01-16 22:54:44] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (120,106,3)) (Event #0) (WHISPER) "Hey Psych-Man."
[2023-01-16 22:54:47] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (120,106,3)) (Event #1) (WHISPER) "Want some serious love?"
[2023-01-16 22:54:49] Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) (Medbay Central (119,106,3)) (Event #14) "Whatsup"
[2023-01-16 22:54:55] Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) (Medbay Central (119,106,3)) (Event #15) "Depends"
[2023-01-16 22:54:59] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (120,106,3)) (Event #79) "Depends on what?"
[2023-01-16 22:55:04] Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) (Medbay Central (119,106,3)) (Event #16) "ON what you mean"
[2023-01-16 22:55:09] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (119,105,3)) (Event #80) "Serious... Love..."
[2023-01-16 22:55:21] Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) (Medbay Central (119,106,3)) (Event #17) "That sounds kinda gross"
[2023-01-16 22:55:33] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (120,106,3)) (Event #81) "Well, too bad, here comes my lips, FAGGOT!!!"
[2023-01-16 22:55:37] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (118,95,3)) (Event #200) fired at Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) with the kiss blown by Pleiadia SS from Medbay Central (NEWHP: 100)
[2023-01-16 22:55:39] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (124,90,3)) (Event #201) shoved Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) (NEWHP: 100)
[2023-01-16 22:55:41] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (129,89,3)) (Event #203) threw and hit Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) with the bola (NEWHP: 100)
[2023-01-16 22:55:44] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Medbay Central (131,90,3)) (Event #205) shoved Chadicus/(Chad Wulff) with knocking them down (NEWHP: 100)
-more shoving, aggro grabbing, etc. until the psychologist is rescued-
After the psychologist is rescued, you resume your motif of "I'm being arrested for my passions":
[2023-01-16 22:57:23] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Security Post - Medbay (138,109,3)) (Event #84) "So what's the crime?"
[2023-01-16 22:57:27] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Security Post - Medbay (137,109,3)) (Event #85) "Loving another man?"
[2023-01-16 22:57:28] Enansal/(Rayner Beail) (Security Post - Medbay (138,109,3)) (Event #51) "assault"
[2023-01-16 22:57:35] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Security Post - Medbay (137,109,3)) (Event #87) "I did no such thing."
[2023-01-16 22:57:40] Enansal/(Rayner Beail) (Security Post - Medbay (135,108,3)) (Event #52) "you beat the psychologist"
[2023-01-16 22:57:47] Jaukkuri/(Pleiadia SS) (Central Tram Dock (115,114,3)) (Event #88) "I didn't hurt him in the slightest."
[2023-01-16 22:58:03] Enansal/(Rayner Beail) (Central Port Maintenance (80,123,2)) (Event #53) "you literally burned him"
[2023-01-16 22:58:07] Enansal/(Rayner Beail) (Port Tram Underpass (87,122,2)) (Event #54) "and bolaed him"
There are a few other interactions, but these three are why I decided to permanently ban you for the better of the server. Despite the Psychologist explicitly saying that they thought that your approaches at love were "gross", you decide to aggressively shove, grab, and otherwise hurt them for practically zero reason. You also bring up the "HERE COME MY LIPS FAGGOT" motif not once, but twice- which makes me believe you didn't seriously consider that usage.
The ban reason may seem like an overstep of rule eight, but that's because although it contains the elements of a Rule 8 ban- it is primarily a Rule 1 ban. You absolutely did not listen to anyone's desires (I believe the HoP was even lagging out while you were doing that, so they couldn't resist your advances). You did not respect any boundaries and made your victims extremely uncomfortable. The fact that you kept persisting in tackling people and having effectively "your way with them" for no reason whatsoever is not acceptable at all. I do not believe anyone who was witness to these events in game (and ahelped) saw it as you (as you bring up yourself): "injecting their fetishes unwillingly on other players". There was absolutely
nothing willing about what you had done. You shoved people, tackled them down, aggressively grabbed them, but it's all okay because you just "kissed" them? The overall context of your actions absolutely can not be diminished by what you did beforehand.
The real-world racism was appended onto your ban reason because it was notable to what you were doing throughout the shift. I don't really see why you had to be so lazy with that specific insult to incorporate real world racism. Example: you call moths sweater eaters at different points and times, which I think is much more fitting for the speciesism-masking-real-world-racism we're trying to avoid. If you really want, I can just remove that portion from your ban,
but I have no interest in lifting it in its entirety. You showed no respect for people's boundaries (yes, the humans behind the pixels have feelings that
were indeed negatively impacted by your actions). You are welcome to re-appeal after you take a good breather from the game (can be shorter than 12 months, just want you to chill out for a good while), but I simply can not let someone who is such a negative afflict to whoever they set their eyes upon remain.